I haven’t formally declared any new year’s resolutions for myself in quite some time, much less written anything down, much less publicly. My memory is melting away but the last time that I remember doing so was perhaps in college, on a thankfully now-long-deleted Xanga. But I’m back! I feel like I could use some deliberate goal setting and public accountability as I near a stage of life known for existential crises. While work is its own thing, and I’m solidly in the habit of setting targets and OKRs there, I want to be making progress in my personal life, no matter how professional pursuits are going.
Fitness. It’s taken me almost 2 decades to get into a habit of working out and I might be ready to progress beyond activity goals (just get out there and do stuff) to achievement goals (though still only in good fun and nothing too serious). I’m thinking:
- Run a 6:45 minute mile.
- Do a headstand.
- Do a pull up.
Language learning. It is a perpetual aspiration of mine to get better at Chinese, but with no plan and no discipline of course that doesn’t happen. I also always get briefly inspired to learn new languages whenever I visit different countries, but the interest lasts me about 3 sessions on Duolingo before the unhinged green owl starts harassing me. For this year, I’m going to try a little harder:
- Read 2 books in Chinese.
- Finish the Real You Mandarin course I bought last year.
- Learn hangul so I can comfortably sound out Korean words (even if I don’t know what they mean).
- Learn hiragana and katakana so I can comfortably sound out Japanese words (even if I don’t know what they mean).
Reading. I read a lot of books every year, arguably too many, especially without any particular direction and since my reading trades off against other things I could be doing. I won’t explicitly try to read less — hopefully as I work towards other goals my time will naturally shift — but I do want to be more intentional in what I read:
- Read the classic novels that are in my TBR stack right now and that I keep putting off.
- Read 2-3 books on religion.
- Read 2-3 books on politics/history.
- Read 2-3 books on economics.
Writing and journaling. This is the year I’m going to stop being lazy about writing and actually force myself to do it! And I mean writing that isn’t cringe-y content marketing on LinkedIn:
- Write at least 1 blog post a month.
Community, family, and relationships. I’m appreciating more and more the wisdom of investing in community and relationships. Don’t give the people you love the most your leftovers! I’ve been getting better about this but I want to keep improving. I’m content to leave this area of goals vaguer and non-SMART since these are general directions I want to push instead of checklist items to mark off:
- Re-connect with old friends.
- Host more friend gatherings.
- Spend more time with family.
I’m a little nervous to put this out in the world because what if I utterly fail at my resolutions? The shame. Ah, well, I’m the only one that really cares. Happy 2025.






























